Haha "as long as......" if that isn't raising a death flag (or a revelation/break up) flag, I don't know what would.
This story got me confused. I love the consensual healthy bdsm but it is ruined a little by all the manipulation and secrets. While the sex is consensual, if a person was playing around behind the scenes to get the other person "addicted to them" in a way and make them dependent on them, does that chip away at the "healthy consent" of the relationship? That's what I'm asking myself. Just because you push to have a safe word and work on pleasuring your partner doesn't mean that there is no abuse in other areas of the relationship
Haha "as long as......" if that isn't raising a death flag (or a revelation/break up) flag, I don't know what would.
This story got me confused. I love the consensual healthy bdsm but it is ruined a little by all the manipulation and secrets. While the sex is consensual, if a person was playing around behind the scenes to get the other person "addicted to them" in a way and make them dependent on them, does that chip away at the "healthy consent" of the relationship? That's what I'm asking myself. Just because you push to have a safe word and work on pleasuring your partner doesn't mean that there is no abuse in other areas of the relationship