I don't understand or I forgot what he resent her for

He proposed to her, she rejected him, then he was upset when she proposed to him to stop him from going to war because he felt like she was pitying him.

Ohh okayy I thought this was forgotten since they seemed to have a good relationship after my bad. Thank youu

There's some unresolved tension because it was never fully resolved but overall I think they do have a good relationship