I don't understand the reasoning behind y'll when iseul's words just doesn't equal her act...

bry August 30, 2024 11:42 pm

I don't understand the reasoning behind y'll when iseul's words just doesn't equal her actions. She didn't push seori away and was holding on her tightly even when she said those. Her words of pushing was because she was too simulated and too embarrassed, and letting go would actually cause her to not get satisfied. She lifted her leg and would kiss her back, how come there's no consent? Can't you read body language? For someone like Iseul that hides her true feelings, verbal words are surface only, not to mention it was only because she's worried about seori as she knew it was hurting her. but she cannot stop and actually push her away since the mood was getting hot. Her true feelings was showing non-verbal 90% of the time. The flushing, gripped of her hands, submissivity... and remember she's someone that likes control, she could easily hold seori's hands and say to snap out of it but she didn't. Don't treat her like a child that can't protect herself! Seori might be a beast in bed but she's not that hornyminded that she doesn't know when to not draw a line, she was looking at Iseul all the time! Trying to see her reactions properly and would still converse with her. She's not powertripping or controlling her, she just want to satisfy the other no matter what because it was her only use, she likes iseul too much but what can she give her but this?

Responses
    bry August 31, 2024 12:06 am

    I keep researching because i might be missing something. But coercive sex or rape is defined as forced or with threats sex but iseul can easily run away from her, seori was not even holding her properly since she's doing god's work below. With threats? what can she even threat iseul for, srsly.

    Strawbeareee August 31, 2024 12:29 am
    I keep researching because i might be missing something. But coercive sex or rape is defined as forced or with threats sex but iseul can easily run away from her, seori was not even holding her properly since s... bry

    I May be interpreting your comment wrong but if you mean she should have ran if she didn’t like it often times people who have survived rape become powerless or feel as if they can’t fight back even if they Technically can, I still like the story but there’s ALOT of misinformation about rape and sexual assault in these comments and it’s kinda scary how easily people pass off rape if it’s in a story or with two girls

    Strawbeareee August 31, 2024 12:31 am
    I keep researching because i might be missing something. But coercive sex or rape is defined as forced or with threats sex but iseul can easily run away from her, seori was not even holding her properly since s... bry

    Ik I’m yapping but I also feel like if the story was between a guy and a girl then the ppls reactions would be a lot different since man on man or woman on woman SA is often writen off very easily much like how if a girl rapes a guy it’s less likely to be taken seriously

    Menhera-dono August 31, 2024 7:54 am

    Just based on the author's other work, I doubt Iseul is gonna think of this as rape. Like I don't think she doesn't want the sex. Think about what was happening before the sex: Sori caught Iseul and Hotel Manager chick in bed. Iseul knows Sori is all about the monogamous life, so she feels very guilty. Sori then "snaps" and the sex happens. I doubt she's thinking "I'm getting raped", I think she's thinking "oh shit she's angry what do I do?" She was even enjoying herself at the end and was like "whew it's over" after the sex, like Sori's anger might've passed over. Then she panics again when Sori starts going for a 2nd round lol

    But really we're only gonna find out what Iseul feels about it when author updates the story. Get well soon author-nim!

    syyyyy August 31, 2024 9:31 am

    I don’t think the author meant to write this scene as an assault (I don’t think the boss will think of it as rape)
    But if in REAL LIFE someone tell you to stop while you’re having sex, even if they look like they are enjoying it, you have to stop it no matter what, and speak with the other person… your body can react when your mind doesn’t want it and you have to make sure your partner is 100% ok with what is happening… (of course I’m not speaking for people having other safe word or role playing or something)

    gisteol August 31, 2024 6:57 pm

    I get that non-verbal cues can be complex, but they should never override someone's clear verbal boundaries. When someone repeatedly says 'stop,' that should be respected, regardless of their body language. Consent isn’t just about reading between the lines; it’s about clear and mutual understanding. Iseul’s reluctance, even if mixed with other feelings, should have prompted Sori to pause and check in rather than push forward. No matter how 'hot' the situation gets, respecting boundaries should come first. It’s not about treating Iseul like a child, but about recognizing that her verbal requests deserve to be taken seriously.

    Strawbeareee September 1, 2024 2:26 am
    I don’t think the author meant to write this scene as an assault (I don’t think the boss will think of it as rape)But if in REAL LIFE someone tell you to stop while you’re having sex, even if they look li... syyyyy

    EXACTLY this was the point I was trying to get across