I find it so interesting seeing people relate to pathetic characters the mindset really do exist irl I guess
I just think I’m very empathetic like I wouldn’t even call her pathetic she’s a young woman who’s been through a lot at a young age and for the most part, she had to do it alone to maintain the persona. Like even at the very beginning, the sisters do not have a good relationship with each other because one of them white literally can’t trust the other one with the truth and the grandfather is doing nothing about it. She is completely alone.
Yeah she's a young woman who shouldn't have been through any of this but the situation at hand was
A) try to talk with my sister
B) ruin my sister's life
They do not have a good relationship because SHE chose not to. They 'switch' and she still can't relate to her sisters depression, even when she's going through the exact same thing. She's pathetic and self-centered.
She couldn’t talk to her sister because
A. She doesn’t have a good relationship with her. You may think in the beginning they were fine. They wasn’t. I would say the best relationship ever was was to direct aftermath of the switch.
B. Her sister may think she’s lying because the only person to back her up won’t because we already previously stated that the grandfather won’t do shit.
C. The whole reason the started is because her sister got suicidal. She doesn’t know if her sister is stable enough to hear the truth because underneath everything she still cares about her.
There are so many things working against her. Like do you understand that therapist don’t exist no one can help her work through her emotions when she sees her sister as her chain and ball. She can’t see her sister’s depression because she’s going through it herself. It’s just hard to care about someone else when you can’t care about yourself like that’s what mental illness is. And honestly, who cares if she’s not a perfect victim because that doesn’t mean she’s not a victim. Like it’s not completely insane for a character who has given up everything for her sister to finally want something for herself. It’s also crazy cause you can say the same thing for her sister like her sister never tried to see what she was going through. It’s a tragedy. That’s why the best thing for these sisters to do is to finally live without each other until they age BOTH ready for reconciliation. She’s not pathetic she’s a traumatized child.
She cares enough about her sisters mental health to spare her the truth but not enough to not ruin her life. Please do you hear yourself? There's no reason to talk anymore really you seem very dense, keep relating to the pathetic bitch
Mind you I never said she was stable, but I just think it’s really strange. You’re able to give her sister Grace, but not her like I think you’re very resentful. I think you should maybe see therapist to try to work through something because you’re getting unreasonably mad for me saying that a girl had a hard life like hmm somethings not right babe
And yeah, she clearly cares about her sister. I’m not gonna tell you how exactly unless you want spoilers but like you are not knowledgeable enough, but that’s not my fault.
Like I said keep relating to the pathetic bitch lmao. You're the one who said you'd be fighting your sister that was depressed and is also a victim of the same circumstances as you? Try seeking therapy for yourself before being condescending lmaoooo
All I said was, I understand her anger in this situation, but in more humorous fashion. I also clearly said she’s unstable. I’m not going to take the actions she takes. I can’t believe this has to be explained to you like a child but it is. Please learn the basic human trait of empathy.
"I completely understand her crashing out like no way you stole my life and forgot about me and my sacrifice for YOU oh no we fighting" where's your emphaty here? Lmaoo bye I'm tired fr now you actually think you're smart it's kind of sad
Do you know what a joke is? Yes or no response.
Just read this whole thread and I completely understand what you said. You just understand why the sister did what she did in the story. That doesn’t mean you like the character or support her you are simply analyzing and gaining an understanding of the characters which is what I do too. That person just doesn’t get it smh v-v
Exactly like thank you. I don’t have to be her in the living form to empathize with her situation.
I completely understand her crashing out like no way you stole my life and forgot about me and my sacrifice for YOU oh no we fighting