I don't like how her family thought that everything between them and FL are just misunders...

Mm see but while the father was directly responsible as he's her dad. Her second brother isn't really to blame. She even said in her memories whenever he was home he was always kind to her and they hung out well. As for the oldest brother he's under the impression that he's a good person but she's right he never really cared about her. All the stuff she was saying her dad felt towards her, more than likely is reflective of the abusive way her eldest brother talks. Yelling without hearing both sides, screaming at people out of there sleep and demanding apologies whenever she gets hurt is insane. He thinks he's stern but he's just abusive. Which honestly is how older siblings act when they get irritated. Which brings back to the dad if he was just doing his job none of thos would have happened. At least not this far. Anyway the real bad guys of the story are blonds

I don't know if you read this from the beginning,but the og Ruby was bullied, neglected, abandoned and abused. Neglecting is also a from of abused,her father did not even bat an eye oh his daughter's well being. He's a drunkard who still mourn of his wife's passing. The second brother, though he's good on this life but he did not care of his sister in all those years, including her previous lives. So is the eldest brother who loves to defend the bish.

The thing is,Rubi is all alone in those lives. She felt alone, neglected and abandoned by her family while those who aren't real family received love the most. Can you imagine her pain? And worst,those who are not real family are the one who abuse and bully her. Even the servants who supposed to care of her are belittling and bullying her.

of course I read it from the beginning lol. all im trying to say is the characters are not acting outside of their personalities. Ruby said herself that Victor was always busy and gone being a knight that's why he wasn't around. She said he was always kind to her and checked up on her. I understand wanting to put the blame on everyone but the fact of the matter is Ruby had plenty of chances to stand up for herself, she was just too scared. closed mouths don't get fed, you an never know who is willing to help if you never ask. Her dad would have continued being a useless lifeless piece of shit until Volga inevitably poisons his wine or something and he dies. the only reason he has changed is because his daughter Ruby forced him too. The other Ruby could have done this as well, but she would have been defeated at the door by the butler.

The majority of the active abuse is Volga and the twins, as well as her oldest brother. Victor was blissfully unaware of her situ and Dad is/was being actively encouraged to be a hermit by Volga I'm sure. Not that that matters he gets no excuses

I said NEGLECT is also a form of abuse.

You said that Victor is always busy and away because he is a knight,on the contrary,you said that Victor is always kind and checked up on her. These words are contrast to each other. How can a busy and always away can checked up on her? The evidence? He doesn't know she was abused until he saw her fell on the stairs. He saw,he is a knight,but he cannot defend his sister properly on those brat. Even in front of the eldest brother,he cannot stand. It was the current Ruby who stand for herself.

In your other comments,you said that it was better to ask the other person what happened. If Victor is kind like you said,he would have spare even a lil amount of time to talk with his sister,to know her situation.But it seems he is blind of her situations. Ruby is alone,the only one who is with her is Wishet.

WHY it's Ruby's fault when she is the victim? You said she had plenty of chances to stand up for herself. How can an abused, neglected, abandoned and bullied can stand up for herself? Volga is abusing her under her father's nose. In the same house where her brothers live. She's only 15 years old now,so can you imagine what was her age when the abuse starts? How many years that she was abused and threatened?


Og Ruby was pushed in a corner, helpless and hopeless. The current Ruby is a modern woman who is empowered. Their difference is that Og Ruby was bound by etiquette on that era and she was threatened by Volga and her children,she also cares for her family even though they neglect and forget her existence. While the current Ruby is fierce and empowered and never cares for her family. Ofc, the soul is not the real Ruby.

Well I think we cam agree to disagree. I wasn't saying it was OG Ruby's fault I was saying that had she not been so scared she would have been able to get out of the situation sooner. Just by forcing herself into her father's office. I'm not saying that was something she was capable of doing I'm just saying that if she had done it, she would have received help. This is not to make less of her situation my whole point is that these characters are not acting any differently then they were in the beginning. Like you said Volgas control and abuse was severe enough to impact her over 2 lifetimes.

Ruby herself said that Victor checks up on her when he is home. That's not a contradiction, he is mostly gone as a Knight but according to Ruby when he is home they have a good relationship. He didn't know she was being abused because she didn't tell him. She confined in her oldest brother and he just gaslit her. Truthfully we have no clue how he would have reacted if she opened up to him. Very likely he could have reacted poorly but who knows?

Also when I said it is better to check both sides I was not talking about Victor, he already took her side. I was talking about her oldest brother who one-sidedly came to bash her. Holding Victor responsible for everyone else's actions because he has to work is not fair.

Does neglect mean ignore?
Some common synonyms of neglect are disregard, forget, ignore, overlook, and slight. While all these words mean "to pass over without giving due attention," neglect implies giving insufficient attention to something that merits one's attention.

But you agree that her family neglect her,right.? Here is another definition of neglect.

Dictionary
Definitions from Oxford Languages · Learn more
verb
fail to care for properly.
"the old churchyard has been sadly neglected"

Similar:
fail to look after
fail to care for
fail to provide for
leave alone
abandon
forsake
uncared for
mistreated
abandoned
forsaken
run down
derelict
dilapidated
tumbledown
ramshackle
untended
unmaintained
overgrown
uncultivated
unweeded
wild



OPPOSITE:

cherish
look after
care for
well cared for
neat
well tended
noun
the state or fact of being uncared for.
"animals dying through disease or neglect"
Similar:
disrepair
dilapidation


FL'S FAMILY FAIL TO CARE AND PROTECT HER. THEY WERE NEGLIGENCE.

Yeah,we are on the different side,but I am happy to have some discussions with you. I hope you are not offended by my words