U did not-
ahh the time has come for me to get roasted online. i actually went back to this manhwa cause i’m nosy and wanted to see more discussions, but wow i’m glad i stumbled on this. just to clarify, i was agreeing with the previous comment (below) that the classification of Dojae as having ASPD was a bit weak, and to me, he seems to have more autistic tendencies than an anti-personality disorder. obvious u can be both a red flag and autistic. ur disorder doesn’t pardon u from ur actions (part of what they were arguing in the story) and ofc we don’t need to view him as autistic (that was just my opinion, definitely up for anyone’s interpretation). obviously, this assumption shouldn’t be made about someone in real life. this is fiction, which the moment it is published, is up for criticism and assumptions. so i hope that this clarifies things but if not or if this isn’t the reason, u do u. don’t worry, i also reread my comment and i understand why it might rubbed things the wrong way. sorry to anyone i offended and i’ll make sure to be more careful when posting stuff online.
also, if this wasn’t a comment directed towards me, i still stand by what i said above and about my apology. and wow, that would be embarrassing of me.
No, it wasn't about your comment, there were some other using the word red flag :'D
Honestly I cannot comment in detail too since I didn't read much in this topic but because I have a real life example next to me, I thought I'd soften the atmosphere.
Sure you can be a redflag while being autistic but Dojae was very careful reading people's behaviors. Like he didnt force him to have sex or tried to hug him when he is crying because Dojae was teached to do so and he was trying to adapt to his human emotions.
When they got together officially, he tried to be more comfortable with his urges and be more honest about jealousy or such but still he hit the brakes when he was confronted.
Thus, there werent any actual red flags in this story. That's my conclusion.
i agree with you!! when i thought u were being sarcastic, i also wanted to explain that Dojae isn’t a red flag but didn’t want to argue in my apology. gonna dig a hole for myself now (embarassed)
Ahaha, it happens :D *virtual hug* <3
I have a best friend who has similar behaviors with Dojae. He and I also have similar conversations/fights about emotions, so guys... It's not a "red flag". It's just autism.