everybody craves familial love and care it's normal she goes back to her family in hopes that her family changes but it doesn't it's hard but blood relationships are like that you can never escape it and how will she even trust the ml anyways when her own blood relationship is like that
The person who enjoys her company is also her full time job and was actively trying to kill her like a month ago. Regarding the family, I imagine this story was written by a Korean author. So the ties to the family make sense. I feel like “going no contact with the family” is a very western idea. Sure she can ignores them, it seems like she does that all the time, but she will always go back because they are her family. She still feels the need to help them and better, at least, her mom’s life. I’m not saying any of this is right, but it’s not a pretty far leap to just say she will go back because I think she does want her family to succeed but they are too stubborn to do so.
There's definitely people who have cut there family off so I'm sure she can do the same as for the ML he's ten times more harmless to her both mentally and physically then the family is
some people just dont get it....
its kind of like seeing someone in a toxic relationship and saying "why cant they just leave damn" like its so so so much more complicated
yeah exactly, like the attachment is still there deep down somewhere. you even feel guilty and the need to take care of them, even though you weren't the one in the wrong actually but still do so cuz you have a weak heart and are too kind hearted... it's always been like this. people will surely take advantage of your kindness and lable it as being "foolish"
Dude if you experience this you would've known that even if your family is toxic you still have attachments towards them I'm pretty sure she still thinks abt her family anyway not everyone is ready to cut off their family and secondly not everything revolves around their romance she has a life too you're acting like the ML is her whole personality
I don't think it's worth it to discuss with someone like them, either they are some privileged ignorant being who is not very educated or well emotionally intelligent to get this problem or someone young. You can see through their response and replies how mich they lack empathy or emotionally intelligent even after ppl explained them pretty nicely and accurately why it's that way. As someone who can deeply relate the FL and seemingly a lot of other ppl in this comment section as well it's rather .. obvious that this is not just her being weak. I mean isn't it the most human thing to want your family to love you? And you will always crave affection of your family, the feelings just don't die and this person clearly isn't as bright enough to get this or just lacks every sense of empathy and common sense it's like telling a person with asthma to just breath there's enough air but yeah. Also it's literally the first time we are shown her past and yep it's so dumb to act like it's her whole personality she even stated how conflicted she feels, she wants to cut them off so badly herself but emotional attachment
a little empathy goes a long way homie
It hits harder because just like you, I actually relate to her a little too much. The things you mentioned are so real. The heartache is so deep that it's physically painful sometimes. It's cruel when people force there opinion and bandaid solutions onto you. Just like you said I too don't engage in that like of convos because it's so pointless and hurtful.
This!
she went to go see her mom bro… you don’t love your mom??
I can't stand characters like this cuz it's like why did you even go there in the first place You have someone who actually enjoys your company and is waiting for you but instead you waste your time You could have spent with the ML on your stupid family