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What you al describe is not being asexual, but apathetic. Asexual people have no interest in sex, but they love like normal people and also are romantic. All that is "missing" is the sexual aspect of a relationship. Apathy is when you are stoic af and don't feel love, passion, romance and "do things because you feel you have to".
People says the ex has gay vibes but I think he gives asexual vibes , I feel he'll only do things if he has to