They’re both childish and immature. Well Kang has tried to be mature, maybe too much, but he thinks too logically, he isn’t too wrong about his worries either, that Yiyoung will probably have other relationships. He hurt Yiyoung’z feelings, but both should try to talk better, not short conversations and get mad, not talk about it.
He’s speaking based off his insecurities. He is wrong for saying it the way he did though, and he was drunk, he should’ve said it while sober in a better way. I want him to express his age gap concern.
he did express the same thing in an even more arrogant way sober lol him being drunk doesn't mean anything. he believes what he's saying is right and firm about it
It’s not about fully about belief, big picture, it’s more about it stemming from insecurities. What he said, it stems from his insecurity. I’ve seen hints of it in the main story and now we got a side story which I believe is focusing more on their relationship balance and struggles without it, as well as Kang’s insecurities on his age and Yiyoung’s age.
Not saying him being drunk is an excuse, but a lot of people will say stuff THEY MEAN. So yes, Kang said it. And then I remember now, thanks to you, Kang did speak about it to Yiyoung while sober. He seems to have full belief of what he said, but it doesn’t really equate to him wanting Yiyoung to have others.
That’s why I say, insecurities. Insecurities hurt the relationship, so I dearly hope they talk better without either of them running away.
I forgot to mention. While they had their short talk, I also believe the other partner should ask about why their partner feels this way, what is the issue, etc. I want Yiyoung to ask about his insecurities, I wonder if he noticed how insecure Kang seems.
I want them to dwell more on Kang’s insecurities and work it out. We don’t really need a third party to help them as a catalyst in a way, but I guess in a way it’s pushing them together more…
i understamd yiyoung so much. like ahjussi, not to be a hater but if you had that in your mind you should've said that from the very beginning. Speaking from personal experience, I've had this guy tell me before we even started dating "I hope you're not looking for something long term" like you can't continue dating someone knowing all they think about is perhaps someday they're gonna break up with you and move on to someone else, or they can't picture a future with you. At least the dude who told me that was being honest before we started dating, as for ahjussi, tut tut, should've said that before you started dating. communication is very important!