Not a gay man but my best friend is one and i have shown him some manhwas. The proportions are weird, when you're bottoming and you have been going at it for 15 mins + your dick goes soft, douching is a MUST but literally every bl there's no mention of that. Also hitting the prostate all the time is overstimulating and won't feel that good. These some of the things we've talked about.
first of all, sex is ALWAYS exaggerated, not just gay sex. the feeling you'll feel while having sex is just endless euphoric that you don't wanna end, especially when it's someone you love. and for the second question, no, most gay men doesn't really like gay manhwas except if they're a loser and virgin or basically just weeb. gay men often thinks that bl is just a fetishized genre made for women who doesn't even understand the hardships of being a gay man but only wants to see the weak bottoms that doesn't even exist irl cuz most gay men stands up for themselves, so they think women just fetishize the feminine sides of men. and to answer the last question, yes, they feel the same like how you feel with straight porn manhwa, cuz in straight porn manhwas, the women have no personalities and only boobs and ass, while the same goes for SOME bl genre, they mostly portray the bottom as weakling, skinny, can't fight, and most referred as omega. but props for the other manhwa/mangas author that doesn't fetishize their gay bottoms oc for not making it a weakling and flaunts the gay men's irl traits.
As a straight girl that likes bl I always wonder is gay sex actually like that ( like is it over exaggerating? Way over the top silly ? ) Or do gay men actually like the genre of manhwa ?
do y’all find it totally ridiculous like I do with the Korean straight porn manhwas or is it calm