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I personally will choose Ilay since he's the type who is pretty chill as long you don't provoke him. Furthermore, we already know what kind of person Ilay is, he's literally show off what he can do.
But Xinlu is not, that's why it's more than right to be wary about him. People who act gentle but disn't disclose anything about their family are most of the times can't be trusted.
Sorry Taeui but I'm on Ilay's side this time.
You don't even know anything about Xinlu other than his face and 'gentle' personality. You don't know his background, especially his family's. It's actually a dumb thing to even try to meet him after knowing what he did to you.
Even if I'm not Ilay, I would definitely punch you too.