This is why I love turning so much TT first kiss at ch 200 and first intimacy at chapter 460! I loveeeee slow burn and the slow build up and tension of yuder's and kishiars relationship in the novel is perfect!!! I'm up to date with the translation and I just love this story so much I can't wait for all my questions to be answered and kishyu to live happily forever !!! I hope all the fetishizers leave due to the slow burn so true turning fans who root for this couple whilst also enjoying the plot and worldbuilding are left reading cuz these comments are making me Speedrun insanity =・ω・=
If I remember correctly he knows by the late 150s when he witnessed yuder manifestation of his second gender (SPOILERS BELOW)
It happens rather abruptly in public and yuder doesn't need to outright tell kishiar since due to his alpha subgender he instinctively knows by yuder's scent, which was released during he manifestation...just a little heads up though...yuders manifestation was low-key kinda sad to read because his past life's memories overlapped with his current ones in his delirious state and he ends up being scared of kishiar because he's an alpha...(I think..idk it's been a long time since I read that chapter but it's done well, I can't wait for the manhwa to get caught up)))
I swear the people who are hating on this manhwa bc it a "slowburn" probably haven't read anything beyond straight-up porn. just because your BL manhwa has sex every five chapters doesn't make your story any better. You complain about the pacing, but I bet you can't even handle action manga like jjk, orv, and tcf without whining about the slow buildup bc "it's too slow!!" Or " mc and ___ should get together!" Since all your brain is filled is nothing but gay porn. Like chill sis nobody taking away your gay sex there is plenty in the whole world. I can send you links if you want it so badly yk