I also don't know I think it's a type of phobia or something ohhh you are right it's pretty difficult to normalise this kind of thin
cos BL is meant to be a fantasy and really not meant for the mainstream.
buddy, idk how to tell you but if it's been adapted into several anime, the genre has become mainstream.
Bro looked traumatized after getting sexually assaulted yet he decided to date him lol
but why does the uke have to always fall in love with someone who sexually assaults or abuses him? that's beyond disgusting