I just wanna look the author in the face to try and understand what kind of person is capa...

I wonder that with most yaoi authors
I theorize they hate men specifically gay men. And this is their outlet.

I think they just have a fetish for this and they cant write a story that doesnt revolve around that fetish...

Same

Nah I think they just use their work as an outlet for their anger and frustration. It just happen that they write BL.

I dont even know too what inside their mind when the decide to make stories, this is not only happen with BL even straight stories suffer the same fate which was the reason i stop reading them. Now evey stories just going the same path, anyone in the industry, not solely just the author or artist should be blamed. Everyone included in the production are questionable to let such story goes out to the society, are we that degenerated? We cant seem to enjoy story without grape anymore at this point, that's why lately i choose just pick the 15+ stories, at least even if they dont have smut scenes the stories are fluffier and be a lighten to the heart. Life already heart, dont want another mental problem from fictional characters.....
This is purely my own opinion, just sharing it

Rape fetish, escapism, projection, etc

I agree :/