
“she doesn’t deserve dohwa” first of all what do y’all expect you are supposed to be nice to your friends and it’s not like she was obligated to accept his confession y’all act like dohwa is a fucking victim to suae but the reality is you guys don’t understand why men and women can be friends too wtf he should’ve known what’s coming by confessing to a taken woman?? and yeah i don’t like eunhyuk either he wasn’t any better leaving ur girl for 8 years is already crazy

I understand where you’re coming from, and I agree that Su-ae wasn’t obligated to accept Dohwa’s feelings (and I didn't want them to be together in the first place, as you can see ). My point was never about placing blame on Su-ae; it’s about Dohwa’s well-being and his emotional journey.
Given his past struggles and the pain he’s experienced, I feel he deserves to move on and find happiness with someone who reciprocates his feelings. It’s not about portraying him as a victim but hoping for a resolution that allows him to heal and find happiness. Being with su-ae is just gonna hurt him in the end. Everyone know how it feel when the person you like doesn't like you and say shit like "we can always be friends" but you know damn well we will just be stranger in the end.
As for Eunhyuk, everyone has their own story and reasons for their actions, but my focus is on what’s best for Dohwa. When I say "Su-ae does not deserve Dohwa," i meant it literally. I’m not suggesting she’s obligated to return his feelings. I understand she’s not required to reciprocate his affection, and I don’t want Su-ae to reciprocate his feelings, and I don’t want them to be together. Why would anyone want Dohwa to be with Su-ae when she doesn’t even like him romantically? When dohwa come up it just his one sided love angst.
I hope Su-ae and Dowha never end up together, and I hope the artist doesn’t even consider it. Some of you may want Su-ae to be with Dowha, but she has no romantic interest in him. Why would you wish for Dowha to be with someone who doesn’t reciprocate his feelings, especially after everything he’s been through? He’s lived in poverty, and the first girl he liked already loves someone else. He even felt disappointed when he found out that she met with him for work reasons, not personal ones. Despite knowing she doesn’t feel the same way, he continues to hurt himself. To keep doing that is just too painful.
Suggesting that Su-ae should choose Dowha after all the struggles he’s faced isn’t fair. Su-ae doesn’t deserve Dowha. Don’t get me wrong—I love Dowha, but continuing to pine over a girl who doesn’t feel the same way is just too heartbreaking and not worth it. Dowha needs to move on and find happiness with someone else. I’ve never felt so sad for a character, but Dowha breaks my heart. Even if Su-ae did confess her love for him now, it wouldn’t erase the pain he’s endured in the past. The ache in his heart when he saw Su-ae with Eunhyuk, or when he realized she only saw him as a friend, is too deep. Please, let Dowha find happiness with someone else—anyone but Su-ae. Hell, I wouldn’t even mind if it was Eunhyuk. I just want Dowha to move on from his first love, who has caused him so much emotional pain. Even Dowha knows he needs to move on, but he just can’t. Dowha’s fans are more delusional than Dowha himself.