Those 'misunderstandings' can be cleared so quickly with just a quick convo. Also, do people don't know how to give others the run around anymre. Grandma: go out with x- here's their info. You: let me check my calendar. Don't contact x. Grandma: you didn't contact x, You: let me check my calendar. Rinse, repeat- it's fun. If x contacts you same deal. Do not engage more than that. It takes less energy than trying to make a case to people who clearly don't comprehend that you're an adult and have been living your life just fine and most importantly DID NOT ASK them for help.
Those 'misunderstandings' can be cleared so quickly with just a quick convo.
Also, do people don't know how to give others the run around anymre.
Grandma: go out with x- here's their info. You: let me check my calendar. Don't contact x. Grandma: you didn't contact x, You: let me check my calendar. Rinse, repeat- it's fun. If x contacts you same deal. Do not engage more than that.
It takes less energy than trying to make a case to people who clearly don't comprehend that you're an adult and have been living your life just fine and most importantly DID NOT ASK them for help.