
but this is so weird, i felt icky seeing that scene, but i felt nothing when i enjoyed reading bl that's why i said "im reading bl too, but its different you knw? maybe this is because this is shoujo/josei manga so i want the full story of the straight couple and wth is fetishization? Pls explain it to me, do you think I want this story to be bl? hell nah! I even hate the fact that ml fucking with man.
thats why u said fetishize that, fujoshi that, huh?

Fetishization, this term refers to the act of making something into an object of sexual desire or treating it as if it's inherently sexual, right? I got it. feeling icky or uneasy about how a character's past is presented doesn’t necessarily make me a bad person or imply that i fetishizing anything. Everyone has different thresholds fo what they find acceptable or enjoyable.

I understand where you're coming from, but I want to clarify that my discomfort isn’t about fetishizing the character’s past. It’s more about finding the depiction unsettling and problematic for me. I enjoy BL, but this particular scene just didn't sit well with me. I think it's okay to have different reactions to different types of stories, and I'm just trying to express how this one made me feel.
man, i don't really like the fact that he's fcking with man and he's bottom too idk if i should continue reading this