Kanghee isn’t the only one at fault

ChickenButt August 11, 2024 8:10 pm

I dislike how majority of people coddle Seonjae as if he didn’t do anything wrong. Yes Kanghee was borderline cheating, but there’s a reason although he still shouldn’t have done that.

CH 75 shows Seonjae meeting Kanghee first time at bar, and drunkenly told Kanghee how he looks like his first love. And to this day, Kanghee has kept that in mind. But he also admits that he really likes Kanghee and clearly it seems like he’s moved on from Dongha.

But it’s not easy cause Kanghee is burdened with his own insecurities.

Seonjae was literally neglecting him and being cold, while touching his ex first love and being really affectionate and caring, while he was cold and weird with his boyfriend Kanghee at the time. This led to Kanghee being jealous and wanting company.

Of course I don’t justify what Kanghee did, but at least be fair about the blame. And I felt bad for Seonjae and Kanghee, both had valid reactions (Seonjae seeing his partner with someone else and Kanghee thinking his partner still liked Dongha.)

Also why are people rooting for the bartender. Did we just casually overlook what the bartender said?

“Are you dating someone or not? Oh well, it doesn’t matter.” — Potential home-wrecker, idk why anyone likes this dude, just cause he’s cute?

Responses
    ◆YUMI◆ October 17, 2024 5:14 am

    But from what I see Seonjae DID show he cared for Kanghee multiple times? But because he kept bringing up the fact Seonjae liked Dongha, causing arguments and fights. Sure, the insecurity is there but ultimately it wasn't Seonjae who caused the wound to get bigger but Kanghee and his insecurity and the refusal to see how much Seonjae cared for him.

    Ultimately, miscommunication. But instill feel like Seonjae at least seemed to TRY?

    ChickenButt October 17, 2024 5:30 am
    But from what I see Seonjae DID show he cared for Kanghee multiple times? But because he kept bringing up the fact Seonjae liked Dongha, causing arguments and fights. Sure, the insecurity is there but ultimatel... ◆YUMI◆

    It wasn’t very clear, but to me or how I interpreted, Seonjae was more affectionate with his ex crush than his boyfriend. Of course, Kanghee wasn’t right in some things he did and said. Not sure if they ever discussed about that, and not sure if Seonjae made it extra clear that he doesn’t like MC anymore.

    It takes two to stabilize a relationship. Both of them should’ve communicated properly, and realize the insecurities.

    It’s been a while since I read this so I don’t remember Jack shit. for this context, I mostly remember Seonjae being cold to Kanghee and that increased his insecurities.