Please tell me

ag.jjtj August 11, 2024 10:08 am

Can someone tell me if this story has clear consent? I’ve been burnt too many times with sudden SA 50 chapters in when it comes to BL. So, is it consensual or is it shady/unclear/straight up SA?

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    yumi-matsu August 26, 2024 7:38 pm

    He's pushy and the other one gives in. At first he doesn't hate it then is kinda into it. For BL standards, it's okay. For real life, it's dubious because he keeps to gnaw at his boundaries saying "I'm being greedy".

    SJ02 August 26, 2024 7:53 pm
    He's pushy and the other one gives in. At first he doesn't hate it then is kinda into it. For BL standards, it's okay. For real life, it's dubious because he keeps to gnaw at his boundaries saying "I'm being gr... yumi-matsu

    Just overall or for sex? I’ve been told by couple of people that since this is shounen ai, there isn’t any dubious consent scenes, as this doesn’t really have smut. That he’s more just manipulative overall

    yumi-matsu August 26, 2024 9:52 pm

    Overall and their first sex encounter (handjob) where the needy one goes beyond what was agreed + does sneaky kisses later. The other doesn't mind but still dubious if irl. The sex scenes are not explicits like it's not smut. But you can see the interactions leading to sex and the aftermath. Compared to other webtoons it is indeed very tame and he's more manipulative (being a crybaby, insecure and "greedy")

    SJ02 August 26, 2024 10:53 pm
    Overall and their first sex encounter (handjob) where the needy one goes beyond what was agreed + does sneaky kisses later. The other doesn't mind but still dubious if irl. The sex scenes are not explicits like... yumi-matsu

    Hmmmm, seems like very grey area. Maybe I will check it out. Do u have any very consensual recommendations for webtoons?

    yumi-matsu August 26, 2024 11:28 pm
    Hmmmm, seems like very grey area. Maybe I will check it out. Do u have any very consensual recommendations for webtoons? SJ02

    I'd need to check but from memory, The art of taming a tiger (fantasy - kr), My influencer Boyfriend (taiwan), Fated first love (jp), Our not so lonely planet (jp ongoing), Robber x Lover (kr), The two lions (jp), Joou to Shitateya (jp) are clean, some with sex, some without. The lists "good BL, no rape between MCs" by tofu is quite good and they list all the TWs necessary.

    I think you could add my bias appeared ? (Kr) but there's deceive going on.

    SJ02 August 27, 2024 1:10 am
    I'd need to check but from memory, The art of taming a tiger (fantasy - kr), My influencer Boyfriend (taiwan), Fated first love (jp), Our not so lonely planet (jp ongoing), Robber x Lover (kr), The two lions (j... yumi-matsu

    Thank u!!!