I kinda understand the director. My mother is a nurse. To her, I'm the least priority. I don't have any happy memory of her with me. School graduation 2, uni graduation 2, both in these 4 graduations, she never came. I even graduated 2 years earlier. All my peers at that time was at least 2 years older than me! As for my father, he's the same too. He only came to my first graduation. I graduated 4 times & she couldn't even take a day off? It's the same when at home too. Her plants take all her time. Since my childhood, the only thing I got from her is the help of finance. Need a new book, here's the money. Need a private tutor? Here, money. But, just for my studies. Nothing else. Anyways, what I'm trying to say is I understand what he's feeling. Even some time ago, I wanted to burn & destroy everything that she holds dear. But, I realized, that even then she'll not spear me any affection. I'm only a tool for them to care for them at old age. But, making children suffer is not right. It will not make him feel good. He can instead run away from there & tear away the emotional cord. Is it healthy? Nope. But, at least he won't be in pain. Sorry I ranted so much! Lol
I kinda understand the director. My mother is a nurse. To her, I'm the least priority. I don't have any happy memory of her with me. School graduation 2, uni graduation 2, both in these 4 graduations, she never came. I even graduated 2 years earlier. All my peers at that time was at least 2 years older than me! As for my father, he's the same too. He only came to my first graduation. I graduated 4 times & she couldn't even take a day off? It's the same when at home too. Her plants take all her time.
Since my childhood, the only thing I got from her is the help of finance. Need a new book, here's the money. Need a private tutor? Here, money. But, just for my studies. Nothing else.
Anyways, what I'm trying to say is I understand what he's feeling. Even some time ago, I wanted to burn & destroy everything that she holds dear. But, I realized, that even then she'll not spear me any affection. I'm only a tool for them to care for them at old age. But, making children suffer is not right. It will not make him feel good. He can instead run away from there & tear away the emotional cord. Is it healthy? Nope. But, at least he won't be in pain.
Sorry I ranted so much! Lol