idk why ppl are confused as to why yiyoung is apologizing. like did u not read the entire ...

gasha26 August 11, 2024 1:34 am

idk why ppl are confused as to why yiyoung is apologizing. like did u not read the entire story? that’s his character. he’s naive. even if he didn’t do anything wrong, he’s apologizing because he also feels bad. the fact he felt bad SHOWS he was able to realize that he shouldn’t have done that. it honestly pisses me off that there’s ppl who turn an apology into an insinuation of wrongdoing or lying. it doesn’t sit right. it’s not right of mr. kang to turn it into something like that.

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    ChickenButt August 11, 2024 3:34 am

    Well in this situation he did do something wrong, lied when he shouldn’t have. But I still agree that he tends to apologize in other situations despite not being wrong.

    Kang has a point. Why is Yiyoung feeling guilty and apologizing if there’s nothing to apologize for? He’s trying to find the truth and Yi has yet to tell him that his friend has been hitting on him.

    ChickenButt August 11, 2024 3:35 am

    I can see where you’re coming from, but we gotta remember that Kang doesn’t know that Doyeon is actively hitting on his partner and making his partner uncomfortable. Kang is communicating by asking, even if it kinda feels like he’s harsh. I’d rather this than no communication.

    ChickenButt August 11, 2024 3:36 am

    Realizing that he shouldn’t have gone with Doyeon is nice, but he does it again in raws, being too kind is a flaw sometimes. and more intense crap coming from Dohyeon cause he’s a piece of ass lick shit.

    ChickenButt August 11, 2024 3:37 am

    Sorry for bunch of replies! I forgot to say: I know that Yi told the truth about who he was with, but that doesn’t help considering he didn’t tell Kang about the flirting.

    gasha26 August 11, 2024 4:21 am
    Well in this situation he did do something wrong, lied when he shouldn’t have. But I still agree that he tends to apologize in other situations despite not being wrong.Kang has a point. Why is Yiyoung feeling... ChickenButt

    but there IS something to apologize for. even though he still hasn’t said that his friend was hitting on him, yiyoung still told him that he lied, which is something worth apologizing for. i totally get your points, i just disagree completely with “apologizing when there’s nothing to apologize for,” especially with the way kang is doing it

    gasha26 August 11, 2024 4:25 am
    I can see where you’re coming from, but we gotta remember that Kang doesn’t know that Doyeon is actively hitting on his partner and making his partner uncomfortable. Kang is communicating by asking, even if... ChickenButt

    this communication to me feels very similar to gaslighting. it’s why i don’t like it. he should know how yiyoung is, given that they’ve been together for a bit. i myself am someone who says sorry a lot, so i definitely can empathize with yiyoung. if he senses that there’s more, he should not be asking like that. yiyoung communicated first, and a lot of people don’t see that. in my opinion, bad communication is just as harmful as no communication.