Not you victim blaming
All of them are, they never will understand the psychology behind emotional dependency specially in such a patriarchal society like Korea. Their minds are too shallow too understand the societal structure that this manhwa brings beautifully btw, not only about marriage and patriarchy, but about work vs individual too.
This. The low emotional intelligence and lack of depth is astounding. Then again, it must feel amazing to be blissfully unaware of the complexity of human nature.
Totally. It is easier for them to simply blame the women than understand a complex societal structure like this. But I am very happy this manga brought this in such a good way instead of a shallow one, the side characters talking, the women talking, the guys talking about their "old wives". I came for the smut stayed for the plot.
It's quite sad since they stop themselves from fully appreciating the beauty of the story and it's truly a well written one.
Same. But I'm terrified over the way things will go, over how the main ml will handle the situation and how this will affect fl.
So true, like you are getting a smut that criticize societal issues and do not romanticize an abusive husband? And still cannot get it? Your loss.
About the ml, he is just the way I like (I am a yandere lover), like he is twisted, but he seems to care more about the FL than about satisfying himself. When he said for example "should I tease her more and see her all sad? I like her expression when she is about to cry", but then he concluded "I like her too much for that". I feel he is red flag, but green for his girl?
I like yanderes too and yeah, while he'll most likely be a green flag to her, what I'm worried about is him making a rash mistake in an attempt to help her (rushing to deal with her husband e.t.c) and creating a misunderstanding that will lead to fear and distrust towards him.
I think that will happen for sure, cause we need drama . And Korean authors love misunderstandings
Ugh
Don't let people play you like a fiddle yall!!
While it is her husband's fault for being a terrible partner and a cheater, FL is also responsible for ignoring his countless red flags and staying in a loveless marriage. FL is stuck in a loveless and disappointing relationship because she purposefully lowered for standard to please her ugly ass "husband". He has so much to gain from this marriage: money, social status, and a free sex worker and maid. Her youth is being wasted on this man and by the time she snaps out of it may be too late for her to biologically have kids (if she wants them).
If a man knows you want a wedding venue, he will work alongside you to save up money for this once in a life time occasion. If you want a court house wedding then by all means go ahead, but make it a special day while you're at it. You can even elope in a different country and have a small, intimate wedding ceremony! Have a fancy dinner, go on a trip, enjoy your honeymoon. Don't wait on a guy (or girl) who gives you empty promises and makes you feel lonely in a relationship.
But yeah that's my small rant, I hope yall don't ever experience what FL is experiencing. Don't let someone who is supposed to cherish you take advantage of your affection.