it's just boring when it's always the top who is the possessive one or the creepy one; I like to see something different, so yeah I'm saying "Finally it's the bottom who is the creepy one". you guys keep fangirling about psychopaths and when I say something different finally you make it into "Uh it's not about bed roles". When it comes to BL it is about bed roles seme always to be this way bottom always this way I wish you use this wokeness when it comes to other BLs that have creepy tops.
There are a lot problematic bottoms, they just get away when they do smth . Smth the top will get a lot of shit if he does it. The bottom has to be really “creepy” and have a kind bf to be seen as creepy or toxic.
And im counting myself too as being weird about the position and personality correlation.
I understand each couple has a top and bottom , its still weirdddd, it creates double standarts
also, I would love to see BL with creepy bottoms that you know a lot of the only ones I know are Public Sex and this one
I think there are no double standards, if there were you wouldn't find BLs like Dear, Teddy Bear being popular there are a lot of BLs with possessive creepy seme, On the other hand, you wouldn't find a lot with Bottom like those, Public Sex and this one are the only ones that I know of that have possessive bottoms, I would like to see a yandere bottom for once I get it being obsessive over bed roles is not a good thing but I can't help with wanting to see something different.
Its not rare that the not dominant character is manipulative,you guys just have insane double standards most of the time. Its overlooked.
Its smth im also struggling to not think about it that way.
But despite the position, they are two make characters with every other personality aspects.
Cause why in hell would a sexual position matter to who is manipulative or creepy?
Why would anyone find it more interesting that the guy who takes it is the one who has more control in the relationship…its so bizarre.
You can say oh he is manipulative even tho he is soft and introverted ,but he is complex.
But its bizarre to say :oh is a bottom and he also creepy, finally!!!!