
I dont blame or hate him( i dislike him just a tad cause he's rude) cause sadly thats how it was back in the day, especially in europe which this works seems to be taking inspiration from. But i also think he feels bad for his sister since she was sick for the majority of her core developmental years and she didnt have her mothers guidance to steer her to the right path during that time. Its kind of a lose lose for both parties.
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Aint liking him too but i thot that compared to that era he was a caring sister and forcing to marry at that era was normal as most would believe amd still do tbh that marrying would make u happy liek if u have a partner with u to support i meam yes lots marry amd do become happy but not marrying doesnt mean the women would die in misery lol amd people still domttget that but what pissed me off was when he goes like how she'll bring shame but them he's doing the same with amother girl before marriage or engaged and not thinking the same just cuz what? He's a guy? All bs. I mwan yes he has all righta to get angry at the ml for laying hands on his sister like this. Tbh I'll be angry too as its abt my sister amd some guy laid their hands on an innocent naive girl *from my pov as idk what goes inside her head I'll obviously thinks she knows nothing* who also dpesnt know hpw the outside world works like even so what if someone jsut played with her and knocked her or something and seeing how the sister never went out and everything and books dont always give all knowledges like modern times so yeah I'll be angry and worried but talking abt shame and everything nah thats not it thats just bs. Yes u can calmly talk abt it if ur WORRIED but not say its shameful heh so thats the reason the brother ticks me off now lets see how far he act like this or he's gonna be like this for a while
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I can't stand her brother. He can sleep around with whoever he wants and it's fine, but his unmarried sister brings shame to him. He's a plain misogynist and would rather risk someone's life than live with the fact that his sister did something outside of marriage. Literal insanity. He's the biggest, dirtiest hypocrite.
Not only that, he blatantly ignores what she truly wants for herself. That is not a brother but an enemy.