Stop being too much lol. I know the baby died because of neglect and i feel bad about her. But what about Hela? She deserves a family too. Her new family is doing their best for her. Look in the brighter side
I’m not saying she doesn’t deserve a family but I hope she does fine a better family like the aunt but I just hopr she doesn’t forget or forgive them just bc they’re just NOW treating her well. Let’s not forget how they treated her in the beginning it took them awhile to even put her in the family registry. They also were gonna send her away if she didn’t overheard them and confronted them. They’re neglected her in the beginning to the point she had to go look for food for herself when she was in a baby body. Their actions killed that baby and they neglected her in the beginning too. Yes they’re doing better now but tbh they should’ve never acted like that in the beginning if they were gonna regret it. I honestly don’t believe I’m doing to much. I’m just pointing out the facts.
Forgiveness isn't about forgetting or dismissing the facts. It doesn't mean saying, 'I'm okay with what happened.' Instead, it signifies acknowledging someone's genuine efforts to change. Forgiving doesn't downplay the pain you've endured; rather, it reflects your decision to find closure and move forward with those feelings.
- Forgiveness isn't about erasing memories or pretending something didn’t happen. It's about consciously deciding to let go of resentment or anger.
- Forgiving someone doesn’t mean the pain they caused is forgotten or that it was justified. It’s a way of acknowledging the hurt while choosing not to let it define you.
- Forgiveness often involves recognizing the other person's efforts to make amends or change, but it doesn’t require condoning past actions.
- Forgiveness can be a way of finding personal peace, allowing you to move forward without being weighed down by past wrongs.
It may take years or even decades, but I truly hope that one day she can forgive them. More importantly, I hope they eventually earn and deserve her forgiveness. Holding onto resentment for a lifetime is far more exhausting than it seems, and finding peace is worth the journey.
When I was younger, I had a falling out with a friend that I refused to forgive for years. My hatred ran deep, and I held onto it fiercely. Little did I know that this resentment would manifest into anxieties and dissociative symptoms. It's especially damaging at a young age because children are still developing emotionally, and they can easily become overwhelmed by complex feelings. Without proper guidance, these emotions can fester, consuming you from within and leaving you with an empty, distorted view of the world.
She shouldn’t forgive them for their sake, but for her own peace of mind. After all, deep down, she does feel guilty about rejecting their affection. Forgiveness isn't about letting them off the hook—it's about freeing herself from the burden of unresolved guilt and finding peace within.
I hope she doesn’t forgive them. The baby died and then the FL took over her body. They’re the reason she died alone and starving. If the Fl didn’t remember her passed life she would’ve died. The only reason they payed attention to her in the beginning now was bc she stood out and was smarter for her age ect. If she was a normal baby they would’ve neglected her and she would’ve died. Just like how the baby died and the FL took over the body. Yea they regretted now but it was too late the baby died. Soooo fuck them. I only like the kid and his mom