thank god i’m not alone. yechan was just waaaayyy too over the top for me personally. i get he’s not used to anyone his age or having feelings about someone but he was really pushy and needy about whatever he wanted. he expected results NOW without any room for yool to breathe… idk it’s very fluffy and wholesome just too much of yechan being so.. hmmm, energetic i guess? i wish he would’ve taken a breath and just chilled out for a moment
Exactly
He chilled out for like, two years plus some though??? He literally waited years for Yool to even say they were in fact dating and that he actually liked him what’re yall talking about
I don’t think he was “too” pushy, yool being fresh out of a relationship isn’t really a factor cause it had been over for a long while, they just didn’t wanna call it that till now, so it has nothing to do with the breakup being fresh, his real problem was where he was in life 8 years into his decision to give up music for his ex and to give into his dad’s demands and where he stood now in that depressive state
And yechan is being underestimated, first by the ex then yool assuming yechan himself doesn’t know he likes yool when he DOES know, and then yool basically teases and flirts with him till yechan finally confesses and then yool panics cause he didn’t expect yechan to be so self aware and tries to run away from the confession? And yechan isn’t stupid he knows yool likes him too that’s why he’s persistent and doesn’t allow yool to act like it never happened just cause yool was overthinking things when it’s simple,
plus he might be older but he wasn’t wiser he was lost about what he should do and depresso and not taking care of himself and needed a friend like yechan that has his shit together to overstep boundaries (which weren’t even really boundaries cause yool COULD entirely push him away if he wanted to, bro didn’t even change the front door passcode) and step in and take care of him, yool didn’t need to be left alone he needed that kind of stable positive force pushing him to rediscover his passion for music
The only way he pushed romantically was not allowing yool to pretend his confession didn’t happen, he didn’t expect romance back from him here and now, and any other affection he showed was just him being him and yool didn’t mind it at all, and even if you pretend yool didn’t like him and yechan was unwelcome yu can’t keep calling it that past the end of summer, yool kept in touch with him with video calls and meeting yechan throughout his military service, like the walls he was putting up were made out of styrofoam from the start
I mean sure, I still find doing those things weird even if the the person lets it happen, I just don't like seeing it, especially cuz I have alot of boundaries, and because I can be a pushover and be overly nice especially when I don't want to do something it just makes me uncomfortable to watch, that's all
I dropped this awhile ago and forgot why, and since it was super popular and said to be whole I came back then I remembered why I dropped it, I just didn't like how pushy yechan was about his feelings and stuff, I get he was excited and really liked him ,I just felt uncomfortable with all the following, confessing, forcing him to answer his calls and basically drove sun yool I to a corner to give up and open his heart a little especially after he had JUST broke up with someone. I am not saying he is bad or anything the story is quite wholesome I just didn't like how yechan was acting made me.super uncomfortable PERSONALLY. This type of behavior can be seen as cute and puppy like and I have no problem with people seeing it that way, I just don't. I don't want to make it seem like the story is trash or anything like I said it is still a wholesome story just not something I would continue for the reasons stated would just leave a bitter taste in my mouth