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It's good and perfectly normal to have discourse about behaviours and tropes in fiction. Ppl might even learn to distinguish these behaviours in real life situations.
We know it's fiction, and we also know it's trying to portray a cute relationship when it in-fact is not. It's so nice that people can recognize that. We're not stopping you from reading it, just having a discussion.
Should've listened to his friend, Jiwoon (he shouldn't have married that guy, not to abort, his choice). Manipulative controlling obsessive gaslighting stalking CRAZY ass bitch. I feel like I would've loved this story in 2020, when I started reading bls and didn't understand when the seme was a toxic asshole. The people that like this story either like toxic and obsessive relationship (weird.) or will reread this story in a year or two and tell themselves "wtf was I reading and how did I not notice all the red flags"