Both Abigail and the FL live in a fatphobic world. Even small words like when the very thin maid told the FL she was on a diet to be pretty for her date or when everytime a corset is mentioned, that they tell the women to not eat much so the corset will fit. Small words like that still stab at wounds and it's hard to just move on when the words that were given to you when you were fat, are still being given and passed around even now when you're thinner, or being told to even thinner women.
Even near the chapters at the beginning, we still see her eating less and being somewhat hypocritical even though she tells Blanche to eat as much as she wants. I don't know what chapters you haven't seen but If you've seen the brother and the tea party scene, you know that it's more than "just an insecurity" because it affects the women around her constantly being mentioned by the sexist men, and that she can't just think differently.
Tldr: the world around her is still fatphobic regardless of her being in a thin or fat body. Her insecurities can't just go away when the main reason she's insecure (fatphobic society) is still around her and pushing her to an impossible and painful standard.
I like this story and I think it’s cute but it’s really starting to drag tbh. And I don’t know why she’s still so insecure when she was giving a whole new body and face like you are not the same person as before move on. A whole new life and you’re still focusing on irrelevant things. I’m happy he has finally confessed though cause the misunderstandings were really annoying me