you use him like that acting all sweet and the minute you're done you're rude to him cmon, cut him some slack if you hate people getting clingy after the deeds/hate alphas in general. you're the one who literally rope him in your issue
that's the Patriarchy talking. give what you want to give, respect boundaries you set. gotta train men to behave respectfully because the world puts them on pedestals for being born. the uke has the right idea. they aren't in a relationship (at this point) that requires anything more.
you use him like that acting all sweet and the minute you're done you're rude to him cmon, cut him some slack if you hate people getting clingy after the deeds/hate alphas in general. you're the one who literally rope him in your issue