Dom/sub bdsm play always has communication boundaries first and equanimity in ability to speak. this manwha started in a green place...I don't know what the hell the last few chapters have been. there are definitely better bdsm Dom/sub relationships featured in not as popular manwhas where when the relationships shift so do the play dynamics, sometimes stopping play all together if romantic feelings get involved. if interested, I can look through my lists an recommend some where they do the play in a more respectable way. Also, if interested in these play dynamics, there are plenty of actual literature that discusses do's and don'ts. hope that helps!
I am curious about this BDSM thing but i don't indulge or read them much because what fiction does best is misinterpret and misinform and put ideas in my head which isn't how BDSM is supposed to be. I guess??
And sure maybe some BDSM relationships irl may be toxic too. (I say this in the most respectful way) Not everyone would be followimg the rules & being respectful even in a BDSM relationship irl as well. Maybe some people are like what all these Manhwa's portray. Toxic & crossing the lines.
But i do like to understand or read a yaoi or bl where BDSM is true to its essense with a healthy relationship instead of a confused, no boundary, miscommunicated ones to get the real understanding of BDSM.
I know I'm asking too much though. (〜￣△￣)〜
So what i am getting from the chapter is... The seme is more of a DOM than a SADIST or maybe he's a lil bit of both?? IDK. Because he said so that control is what drives him. And if the uke is obedient, he'd fullfill his needs of pain, getting choked etc etc.
But why didn't he make it clear to the uke from the start cause now that he got a taste of the uke, seems like he doesnt really know where & when to draw the line.
Do DOMS & SUB's play outside of play time too? Someone who has knowledge on that. Let me know?? (￣∇￣")
Cause seems to me the seme been playing DOM all alone without even giving the uke a heads up. And isn't uke more of a MASOCHIST cause he likes pain???
I am slightly confused & disappointed with how this story is going.
At first it seemed like seme was on point with his communication and drawing boundaries when it came to PLAY TIME. Now its all messed up cause his DOM tendencies come out every other day. Σ(っ°Д °;)っ