Uhhhh!!! Oh hun, you just made a mistake. Well, at least your boyfriend doesn't know about it. Because that would create drama and problems. I mean, on a mental level you feel like you did him dirty. Even though nothing sexual happened. The best advice is to not let it happen again. Most people would be like tell your man, but nah, that ain't gonna do you no good... Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
Honestly as messed up as your situation seems, it depends on each relationship yk. If you and your bf trust each other and don’t feel insecure and he knows you won’t do anything behind his back, I say let him know how you felt, you dealt with your frustration with drinking, yea maybe with the wrong person but if nothing happened and he’s understanding, he may just see where you are coming from
I think you didn't do anything wrong. It's not always possible to be off the same time our partner is, and it's also normal to hang out with friends and relatives without them (because they're lightly sick, busy, already taken in other plans, tired) sometimes. It'll happen to them also, to hang out with other people and without you. The only thing is that: now you know this other guy maybe will hit on you again, so now you can decide not to hang out with him anymore.
See I kept telling the guy I have a bf so maybe that would help create some distance and I know he actually has a gf, but he didn't directly tell me that that night which I thought was really weird and then i realized like umm maybe I'm making a mistake rn just by hanging around this guy. I was just really upset bc I hadn't seen my bf in a while bc of work + life stuff
See I know I would never do anything behind his back which is how i even ended up in this situation, but I know it might make him feel a little insecure that I was in that situation in the first place but yeah, i def dealt w it w the wrong person
Oh for sure, bc ik if the roles were reversed then I'd be a little upset and I wouldn't wanna make him feel that way, it was a learning curve for me yknow?
The other day I was upset bc my bf got called into work when we were on a date and I was excited to spend the whole day w him (he works at night) and that night I happened to go home w my sister and her friend, and I ended up spending the whole night w her friend's brother playing drinking games until 6 am bc I was just upset that I'd rather be spending that time w him but then I realized that he's working really hard rn and here I am w this handsome guy who's been lowkey tryna get at me for a while and it's such like a ??? feeling kinda awkward and feel guilty but it's not like I cheated or wanted to, it just didn't feel right?