EXACTLY
Wasted opportunity
It's an unbalanced relationship and likely bound to fail. There seems to be a trend of loving poly relationships now a days, but people always forget that relationships are pretty fragile and need constant communication and reinforcement. Not saying poly cannot work, I just don't think most people can make it work. One bad month, bad week, or even bad day can cause a spiral of jealousy, resentment, and/or paranoia, no matter how mature of a person one is (or more likely think one is).
Like I agree the 3p was a weird relationship but not for the reason everyone else seems to think, I wish we got the two tops falling in love too along with just all of them dating bc I’m confused why the bottom is ok admitting he’s in love with his friend but not his sex friend? Like bro it’s ok to just love both of them like they love you and friend/lover already talks about how he isn’t jealous just grateful for the sex friend… they could all literally have the best throuple im just saying (〜￣△￣)〜