Tell you what... I don't want to delve too deep in bdsm cuz it might really suck me in real bad, and what i meant by bdsm, is the real life one with its own community and stuff.
And I heard there are people who are really like that, which are also called Dom (dominant) and Sub (submissive) as the counterpart. And yes, Doms may or tend to control their partners life which the other clearly gives a consent to.
And such relationships have to have a tight bond of trust and boundaries conveyed, and more importantly, consent...cuz you'll never know when the play/session will end up bad or gonna go wrong at some point.
I just felt like sharing it lolol ¯_(ツ)_/¯
I've read the raws and oh man old man gets me angry, their relationship was just supposed to be roleplay and sex and nothing personal,but old man wants to know everything mc about life while he's doesn't answer no questions mc asks