So...stupid lmfao. She wants to divorce...to be single...but is in love with him and seein...

MirrorImage July 27, 2024 12:23 am

So...stupid lmfao. She wants to divorce...to be single...but is in love with him and seeing him...but wants to remain single? So what? They will marry again later? Nothing about this makes sense. They could've just lived apart and remained married while they explored their feelings. So unrealistic too. You can't just divorce that easily.

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    Hmmmpfffs July 27, 2024 2:25 am

    If you think its unrealistic to remarry and divorce in a short time, you need to read more about the world

    MirrorImage July 28, 2024 3:07 am
    If you think its unrealistic to remarry and divorce in a short time, you need to read more about the world Hmmmpfffs

    That's not what I' saying is unrealistic. I'm saying the reason that they chose to pursue divorce.

    Panda July 28, 2024 9:51 pm
    That's not what I' saying is unrealistic. I'm saying the reason that they chose to pursue divorce. MirrorImage

    She didn't divorce Frede because she wants to be single. It's that she is a transmigrator and that her feelings towards Frede is unreal. She felt that her current life would lead to a similar fate like her past life. And so wanted to live a soul-seeking independent life, not just anyone's wife.

    MirrorImage July 29, 2024 7:01 am
    She didn't divorce Frede because she wants to be single. It's that she is a transmigrator and that her feelings towards Frede is unreal. She felt that her current life would lead to a similar fate like her past... Panda

    Yeah but she arrived at the conclusion too soon considering she was falling in love with him. Wouldn't a normal person delay the divorce date that they agreed to originally just to test the waters? At this rate, they're going to divorce, only to get married again lol.

    And look, I completely get wanting to be single as someone that cannot fathom a life not being single. It's just that she IS falling in love and she was aware it at the time of the divorce

    Panda July 29, 2024 9:27 am
    Yeah but she arrived at the conclusion too soon considering she was falling in love with him. Wouldn't a normal person delay the divorce date that they agreed to originally just to test the waters? At this rate... MirrorImage

    Not really. Them getting divorce only makes them realize how they love each other and further strengthen the relationship. Frede wouldn't be bold and vocal enough to pursue Ayla, whom he despises in the beginning. And Ayla would always doubt her feelings towards Frede, whom the original Ayla is smitten with.

    And another point here. Yes, Ayla might be aware that she loves Frede, like not following the script of the "story" she's in, but actually really love. But she wanted to have the life different from her past life. You see, she never really had the life she wanted for herself. All her life was all about being her husband's wife, nothing more, like an accessory to show only when needed. Now she was granted another life. A life where she can hold the reins itself and not known to be just another man's wife or possession. She wanted her own foundation, one thing she thought and knew would've freed her from that terrible fate in her past life.

    And in a civilized pov, "not following terms in"/ "breaching" a written or verbal contract, no matter how huge or small it is, is and always will have a negative impact on the relationship between parties. Ugly perception, bad reputation, disappointment, anger, loss of trust, etc., you name it. Their relationship will still go to a downfall, nonetheless.