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I think that we should stop putting people into a box. Love is free and should always be free. We should more care about the”I love you” said than trying to describe someone sexuality from our perspective. We don’t have to label it, or patronize people about it because they don’t want to please you and say that they are gay.

You misunderstood. I don’t need him to say that he‘s gay. I am unlabelled myself and don’t really care about them. But saying I like girls but you are an exception is kind of problematic. He could also have said nothing about his sexuality which I would have liked more. He could have said that he liked the other and get together with him but he said: I normally only like girls. Which is also again labelling and with that he’s putting himself in a box

Maybe we can just acknowledge and let ppl label themselves? If he wants to say and feel like he only like girls and he found love with his male partner, why not? saying it’s problematic is problematic. We don’t know who we will meet tomorrow and we can surprise ourselves by loving someone different than our taste doesn’t mean I have to acknowledge that I can love everyone that look like my partner lmao. ( in this exemple, a man) I get your point I do not say that I like what he says and I wouldn’t tell the same thing, don’t get me wrong haha. I think it’s a bad way to tell that his partner is special, but we have to take into consideration that some ppl needs time and it’s the first step to say okay I cageot this love but normally I only girls. Once again it’s not the best thing to say but I can comprehend it.

Bro… I think we have the same opinion. I‘m really bad at saying what I think because I speak a lot of languages so I‘m bad at expressing myself with words so I get why you thought that that’s what I meant. I apologize for that.

And I agree, people can change their tastes. I like mostly girls for example and never was with a guy. I just find the sentence you’re an exception is a bad way to confess.

Haha that’s fine, I can understand, English isn’t my first language either. There is nothing to apologize for, I wasn’t trying to confront you about your opinion,I just wanted to talk about it :)