As an aromantic person, getting confessed to repeatedly by someone I've only known for a m...

Delano July 21, 2024 6:14 am

As an aromantic person, getting confessed to repeatedly by someone I've only known for a month would make me feel really disgusted with them. I know the guy isn't actually aro, but you should still respect if someone tells you they aren't interested in love and just want to remain friends, because you never know. Depending on the context, this would absolutely be considered harassment. Please don't do this in real life. It CAN work out for some people, but it might also make the person on the receiving end feel really shitty. Turning someone down takes it's own type of courage, because there's a lot of pressure to reciprocate someone's feelings, and it's inconsiderate not to respect that. At the very least, why not try to get closer to the person before bombarding them with endless confessions? I can't find that kind of behavior romantic at all, nor can I root for the person doing it. I find it pushy, selfish, and disrespectful.

Responses
    eggrolls August 8, 2024 1:59 am

    I understand and respect your opinion, but Karasuma isn't aromantic; he was only scared.

    Delano August 8, 2024 2:23 am
    I understand and respect your opinion, but Karasuma isn't aromantic; he was only scared. eggrolls

    Hence my saying "I know the guy isn't actually aro, but you should still respect if someone tells you they aren't interested in love and just want to remain friends, because you never know." /nm

    eggrolls August 8, 2024 3:42 am
    Hence my saying "I know the guy isn't actually aro, but you should still respect if someone tells you they aren't interested in love and just want to remain friends, because you never know." /nm Delano

    okay