I have seen this happen since a decade ago where there were only mangas. Partly cause they do treat the homosexual relationships as usual straight stories considering the uke as a woman. They do treat them the same way like they treat flthe FL. If the FL had moved on, liked other person, went clubbing or dated/slept with another guy they slutshame her. They say 'I am out' or "I am dropping " Misogyny and homophobia is pretty rampant here.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_man_who_gives_it_all/
The story progressed alrdy so comments focus on plot but when this was new, ppl would slut shame the uke and act like he was doing a bad thing even though he warned the seme/s that he only wanted a purely physical relationship
Giving you an example.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oko_sama_box/
This was a 2017 manga. Just read the comments and you'll understand how pissed the people were when the uke went and dated or even had sex with another guy. They definitely still had feeling for each other. But they had broken up. As I see even now they are pissed lol
Where did the rest of what I was saying go anyways here’s what I said. Is it really so wrong for uke’s to sleep around. Lots of people get with others just for sex because they don’t wanna be in a committed relationship. And they where also saying how only the uke’s get slut shamed for sleeping around, but when seme’s do it they just get called a “playboy” when they’re really just a slut to.
Wait I’m confused. Was the seme in love with the uke, but they weren’t in a relationship, and then the uke slept with another guy (was that no strings attached just sex or did the uke like that guy?), and then the uke went to the semes house and then got mad at the seme for sleeping with another guy when it turned out it was just a misunderstand and the seme never slept with that guy? I couldn’t follow the story that well
(It's been quite long since I read that one but from what I remember) they were fwb as students then drifted appart because they weren't satisfied with that status yet never actually *talked about it* (frustrating). Then they met again and after enough misunderstandings and miscommunication to fill the manga, they actually talked, realized their feelings for each other and decided to date. So basically two idiots tring to get over their crush for years instead of actually confessing their love to said crush - at no point was any of them "cheating" on the other since there was no "relationship" (other than fwb)
Ya'll are so weird. The slut shamimg of ukes is so crazy to me. Ukes dont owe the Semes loyalty unless they are married or in a committed relationship. they can sleep with who they want and as many people as they like
This slut shaming is crazy.
I dont care if the Seme is in love witht the uke and yoh feel bad for the seme. The uke is not obligated to cater to the seme'e feelings.
its so hypocritical because I rarerly see Seme getting slut shamed for sleeping around.