Its giving Lack of Maturity

IKR like ppl have a whole ass preference and lists for "playboy seme" but when ukes also sleep arounds it's a problem?? It's weird how they expect ukes to be a pure innocent twink almost like the way ppl expect fls to be

Who’s slut shaming? I haven’t seen anybody slut shame any uke’s, in fact, I see more seme’s get rightfully hated on than any uke’s. Where have you seen this happen?

Hating and slutshaming are very different from each other. They don't namecall the uke, they don't accept them as "pure uke" or "in love with seme" if he has sex with anyone else

I have seen this happen since a decade ago where there were only mangas. Partly cause they do treat the homosexual relationships as usual straight stories considering the uke as a woman. They do treat them the same way like they treat flthe FL. If the FL had moved on, liked other person, went clubbing or dated/slept with another guy they slutshame her. They say 'I am out' or "I am dropping " Misogyny and homophobia is pretty rampant here.

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_man_who_gives_it_all/
The story progressed alrdy so comments focus on plot but when this was new, ppl would slut shame the uke and act like he was doing a bad thing even though he warned the seme/s that he only wanted a purely physical relationship

Nobody’s a pure person once they have sex so I don’t get why people would do this

“How many people they want,” is the very definition of a slut.

All this yapping and proved nothing.

I wanna argue but what you said is true

Giving you an example.

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oko_sama_box/
This was a 2017 manga. Just read the comments and you'll understand how pissed the people were when the uke went and dated or even had sex with another guy. They definitely still had feeling for each other. But they had broken up. As I see even now they are pissed lol

Key word "SHAMMING"
so why are you telling me the definition of a slut?

Where did the rest of what I was saying go anyways here’s what I said. Is it really so wrong for uke’s to sleep around. Lots of people get with others just for sex because they don’t wanna be in a committed relationship. And they where also saying how only the uke’s get slut shamed for sleeping around, but when seme’s do it they just get called a “playboy” when they’re really just a slut to.

fr bruh, can't stand it when people shame them by calling them dirty toilets and such, but will turn a blind eye when it's the seme who's sleeping around

Wait I’m confused. Was the seme in love with the uke, but they weren’t in a relationship, and then the uke slept with another guy (was that no strings attached just sex or did the uke like that guy?), and then the uke went to the semes house and then got mad at the seme for sleeping with another guy when it turned out it was just a misunderstand and the seme never slept with that guy? I couldn’t follow the story that well

(It's been quite long since I read that one but from what I remember) they were fwb as students then drifted appart because they weren't satisfied with that status yet never actually *talked about it* (frustrating). Then they met again and after enough misunderstandings and miscommunication to fill the manga, they actually talked, realized their feelings for each other and decided to date. So basically two idiots tring to get over their crush for years instead of actually confessing their love to said crush - at no point was any of them "cheating" on the other since there was no "relationship" (other than fwb)

Ohhhh, it makes sense now. If they weren’t in a relationship then it doesn’t really matter who else they slept with.

Yess. But the comments were pissed. "He doesn't love him that much. He didn't wait for him for a decade, "Seme deserve better" "You can't have sex with someone and claim you're in love with another person, this isn't true love" etc（￣へ￣）