ain’t readin allat just from the title alone. you quite literally contradicted yourself when you said “it hurts the most when people invalidate your feelings and emotions” when that is what bihwan has been doing from chapter 1 to 26. you seem to have forgotten the fact that bihwan binded his soul to minchan and that was FORCIBLY done girl if bihwan hadn’t done that, minchan wouldn’t be staying w him so be for real with me. we’ve literally had a chapter where minchan has somewhat reached a point because of the seme’s relentless comparing. you’re the one who’s invalidating minchan along with bihwan. just because minchan is nice and patient to him doesn’t mean he’s unnaffected by the situation. minchan is literally JUST AS BROKEN. he grew up being aware of his unlucky life; he basically raised himself to grow.
I think seme needs time to process his confusions. He is totally clueless and confuse. Minchan is already doing a good job for being able to put up with most of semi's actions. I think sooner the seme will be asking forgiveness from minchan.. And this is why I love hate to love troupes, it's not the typical yaoi out there. In fact uke is dominant in this story, he loves to dominate compared to being submissive
Almost everyone's annoyed with seme. But base on the recent chapters, seme did not grow in a good family, in fact he developed a trauma thanks to his dad where he locked seme in a small space. But then Seoho came to his life, base in their conversation in the bathroom with Minchan, seoho treated him so well that even his parents cannot even do to him. SEOHO WAS EVERYTHING TO HIM, THE REASON HE KEPT ON LIVING DESPITE THE CRUELTY OF EVERYTHING AROUND HIM.
There was no one in his eyes but Seoho so the love and trust he has for seoho was not divided it was all intact until the same person betrayed him and locked him up. Seme even said he waited for a hundred years because he believed Seoho had his own reasons, but after a century he totally lose hope let a millennium and 5 centuries in that empty and lonely space. Who wouldn't get crazy. Just after 1,500 years came someone with soul to scent to facial features that was exactly as Seoho's but this time he is named Minchan. Imagine all the madness the grudges the feelings that the seme kept in him for 1,500. Who would not blow up. BUT THE ONLY ERROR IS HIS PROJECTING HIS ANGER TOWARDS A PERSON WHO DOES NOT HAVE THE MEMORY AND IS CLUELES OF SEME SITUATION. For me I totally understand the seme he was not unreasonable and that is the same for the uke. Seme must have filled with confusion, he is confused with seoho's yet-to-be known reasons, confused with the current setting as well confuse on how to figure out how to act towards Minchan who is exactly the same with Seoho except for the attitude and behavior. He needed time to process his emotions in an unfamiliar setting.
The uke or Minchan was also understandable they are both broken. Minchan as a person was surrounded with bad luck and that is why most people around him left voluntarily or not.
For me, they are both lonely and broken.. they need time to figure out their feelings and let it all out. What hurts the most is when people invalidates ur feelings and emotions. Kudos to Minchan for telling seme that he needs to cry it all out. Minchan is putting up with seme. In semi's eyes he seems to just cant separate Seoho and Minchan. That is why Minchan speaks in a vulgar way unlike seoho, seme gets pissed. Plus the guy with the golden eyes who is currently with Minchan's grandma is SUS too cuz he calls minchan by seoho. I'm basing this critique from chapter 1 to 26.