The (18 - 20) 2 years gap is okay. I'm just saying my friend who's 15 that time that have 20 year old bf doesn't mind me at all THAT TIME cuz I didn't think of it that much. That's her relationship and that's her preference. Who am I to judge? She married now with her husband who is also older than her but they don't have more than 5 years of age gap. So in conclusion, it depends on people. But of course, children with older people is a big no no.
Who are you talking to? The FL or my friend?
To give you more info. My friend who is teenager that time had boyfriends (yes with "S") with an age ranging 20 - 25 (maybe older I didn't much care about it) and his current husband is her last bf when she's 18. So I can definitely can tell you that my friend is not groomed.
In regards of the story, I'm not paying attention. So whether you think she's been groomed or not, I didn't care much, I don't have enough information if she's groomed or not or you can tell me if you're so eager to prove she is. I will appreciate it.
Oh I haven't read this before your comment well I already gave you an answer. If that's what you believe then it's not my problem anymore. Since at the first place, you don't know her personally, so it is easy for you to judge she is just by depending on a little info you know. I can't blame you for that but you have to be careful to not easily judge someone. Well, fictional characters is fine, we can get to know them better throughout the story but not the real people especially strangers with the little story they have.
got worried but ig shes not gonna be in highschool anymore so thats okay ig