Or, he wanted it to be a surprise??? Of course, he should’ve asked and shared what he wanted to do so he wouldn’t misunderstand but his intentions weren’t as toxic as you make it out to be. Jesus.
Yea not toxic but extremely stupid. Can you imagine moving in with someone and having no input about the place you’re moving to just insane. Like I’m afraid it should have been both of them touring these places together. Also he’s always complaining how he gets no time with him, but he can’t tour an apartment with the man?!? For a surprise ? Like stupid actions stupid consequences.
Yes, definitely stupid because then he misunderstood. Plus, always best to talk to your partner about things like this even just mentioning the apartment or house.
"The reason I didn't tell you is because i'm trying to control every little aspect of your life without even your input!"