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People can be "not gay" and still be romantically attracted to the same sex.
"How is that not gay?" Ask or see for yourself if you'd feel the same if it was with other people. If you can easily see yourself with others of the same sex, then maybe. If not, if you only feel this way towards 1 particular same sex person, then it's different.
In those cases, it's the person you fell in love with, not their sex.
I like to put it as "falling in love with their soul". Our souls are neither male nor female. It's pure being.
I read this once before, "falling in love is your soul recognizing it's counterpart in another person". That's simply what's happening.
Bitch if he's not gay, why did he confess to you!?