Yoo

Nah bcs I’m actually so scared tho I Jst don’t understand when people feel good while doing it for the first time

My thoughts!!

there's blood?
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your hymen actually isn’t supposed to break, that’s a myth. it’s supposed to stretch, make sure you finger yourself/they finger you beforehand to ready yourself. use lots of lube too, even if you think you’re wet enough, its always better to go overboard and be safe. it’ll hurt a lot less! I’ve done it a few times and never bled, it has still hurt a bit at the start for me at times but I also have vaginimus so it might’ve been a mental thing.
Point is, don’t skip on the foreplay!! don’t take loser dick who won’t get you ready before sticking it in either!!!

Oh my .... You're making more scared than I'm already

I am scared too

Lots of

Idk I just feel like I’m never gonna do it at this point like I don’t really desire it but I also want to try it but I’m so scareddddd

Same girl sameeee

That’s why foreplay is so important! Last time I had sex my Ex was too high to stretch me out and it hurt like crazy I started to cry and we had to stop

me want to be in a relationship

You guys are making me afraid while reading this. ╥﹏╥ they say that you can't remember if you are drunk so is it good to drink first? I've been saving it IN CASE I got married.

begging yall to read my reply it does not have to be this way queens

I just hope I can get a man who’s understanding and patient bcs otherwise it’s OVER bby

You really make a very a good point about the foreplay. People don't understand the importance of the foreplay , they just get to shoving it in.
If he do not know how to do a proper foreplay either teach him or tell him to do it and still if he doesn't or she it's not worth it girl

My first time didn't hurt at all because the dude spent a fat minute giving me head LMAO. Foreplay like fingering, head or even just making out and grinding on each other lets your kitty self lubricate and makes the whole experience so much better. Someone who actually cares about you and your experience will spend time on foreplay or listen to what YOU like and do it.

Girl it didn’t hurt at all for me and there was only a drop of blood. You just gotta make sure you’re actually turned on, then it won’t hurt

Y’all wait this is scaring me

It hurt less than I expected but maybe because he didn't properly entered with the first and second time we had intercourse. It really is important that you're also turn on, that is why foreplay is important so you can be properly "wet" it won't hurt after that. Or if you have a problem making yourself wet, using lube will help.

If your guy that straight up shoving into you with getting you wet. Educate him if he doesn't listen just run away from him.

Sex shouldn't hurt nor should there be bleeding.
If you do bleed it's probably a lubrication issue.
Nothing good ole lube can't solve. Plus foreplay is essential to get you into the mood and to relax you a bit get you used to things aswell if you aren't experienced. So 3 main things the right partner foreplay and lube ( condoms are a must mandatory) (and don't use lubed condoms if you are already using lube since it might cause tearing in the condoms and also the type of lubes differs so find what works best for you and the type of condoms you use) happy sexing