Ladies, calm down

You weird as hell fetishizing loser

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Girl you also read yaoi, you're just as guilty

Says the one with a bunch of smutty BLS in their reading lists

Then what are u doing in mangago??????

There isnt even any fetishizing in this comment?? The hell??

Then what is it? They clearly said horny and fujoshi that’s what fetishizing means

???

There were a lot of comments complaining about how it was too much of a slow burner it was on the romance side. I meant I sympathise, being a fujoshi too, but encourage fellow readers to enjoy the story.

I also don't fetishise gay men; there's a big difference between BL and actual gay men, as weird as that sounds.

Since when does being horny= fetish?
watching any type of porn to jerk off is also a fetish then? The person basically said yeah they like smut and they like yaoi but it's no reason to hate on a slow burn, but you come in and jump off your conclusion cliff and call them a fetishizer. That's hella disrespectful

And also I think a fetishizer would be encouraging the comments hating on the slow burn not the opposite

Thank-you Kiki, you're very kind.

I don't mind a slow burner romance if it's supported by a fascinating story and characters. I'm enjoying the many mysteries and world-building. There's more to this than the romance. I'd read this without the budding romance. It reminds me of 'I wasn't Cinderella' which isn't BL.

Lmao you’re joking right? The whole point flew over your head. A fujoshi is a WOMAN being over obsessed with GAY material and getting off of it. This does not apply to a man jerking of to a woman or the opposite. Here I’ll give you the definition of what fetishized means it took me 5 seconds. make (something) the object of a sexual fetish or to have an excessive and irrational commitment to or obsession with (something). OP labeled themselves as a “horny fujoshi” this literally implies she is horny for BL material. I’m not trying to argue with you I’m just educating you and I hope you don’t take it the wrong way. And I also don’t saying I hated slow burn?

You saying you were a horny fujoshi which implies that you are horny for BL material. I’m pretty sure that’s what a fetish means whether it’s fantasy or in real life. If that’s not what you meant then I apologize but I’m just trying to explain from my perspective.

“Fujoshi means being obsessed” now you’re just making your own definitions weirdo

I wouldn't say I'm 'obsessed', BL is just one of my favourite genres, especially for romance. I've always taken fujoshi to mean 'female fan of BL.'

I would think every woman intentionally reading BL is getting a certain level of gratification. I read the comment sections, I know what the audience is like. I don't understand why you're shaming me specifically like a weird pervert.

Dude while I can't say every girl who calls themselves a fujojoshi is not a pervert
I can tell you most bl is written and read by women not because they're fetishists but because it's either cute or if they're straight it's twice the amount of hot dudes in comparison to straight smut
Girls who read bl mostly aren't going to watch real gay porn or ever fantasize with gay men in real life
Also it's a weird hill to die on instead of fighting stranger girls on mangago why not fight homophobes on Twitter

No I didn’t. Literally look it up online. It means rotten girl for a reason. I don’t know why you’re calling me a weirdo when I’m not the one saying weird shit like that

Okay thank you for clearing it up instead of taking it the wrong way. When you said that I thought you meant it as fetishizing the genre. A lot of people tend to deny it in order to not get hated in which I why I’ve been trying to explain my reasoning