I always try to be considerate and understanding, but I can never understand ppl who can't...

some people have no self respect

True

I swear its easier said then done, I used to think the same until I was in the position. its best not to judge ppls circumstances but I totally get what you mean

Well I'm not just stalking, I was in the same position. I know it's not easy to let go of ur feelings for somebody and forget them, what I'm saying is u don't have to put up with their shi*y personalities, If u decided to break up don't look back and try to heal on ur own, don't let them walk on u using ur "love for them". I can't change ur opinion and u can't change mine. At the end human relationships are really complicated and hard to deal with

well good for you for having a good mindset but not everyone is lucky to have that mindset or a good support/emotional system. like I said, adding in circumstances like their childhood growing up, and how they are in the relationship (was it stable, was it abusive, manipulative etc). its easy to blame the person not "leaving" when you don't know their life.

all im saying is to be more considerate of ppl. like you said relationships are complicated. the ML has obviously been emotionally manipulated a lot (for example her controlling his hairstyle and calling his eyes "scary") and they have been together for years. he's trying to leave but its not easy, at least he took the steps. not everyone can just up and leave and be done asap.

Thank you for being an understanding, compassionate human being who realizes people have circumstances that we don't know that makes them act a certain way, instead of shitting on people like the ML and saying they have no self respect, we should be considerate and try to support them and direct them to a healing journey

Ofc! I’m glad you also understand too. Ppl are so quick to judge others process of growth or healing. Everyone has their own pace. Telling someone to hurry and move on won’t help.