Gurl ain't you one yourself cuz you are reading this? (=・ω・=)
I don't think they're taking real people and "shipping" them with other real people. those r REAL PEOPLE who have real lives and it's weird asf to sexualize them and "ship" them with someone else
not everyone who reads gay comics is a fujo. i read this comic because im a gay person and not a cishet womam who fetishizes gay relationships.
Chill mate, it ain’t necessary to lash out on them like so. Cishet women can also appreciate a well written and cute story about a gay couple. They don’t necessarily fetishise gay relationships. Coming from a queer person （￣へ￣）
i think ur the one that needs to chill bc ur fighting the air rn never did they state anywhere that all cishet women who enjoy gay media fetishize gay relationship. they're saying that when gay men are sexualized, it's usually coming from cishet women. a rectangle is a square but a square is not a rectangle kind of situation -coming from another queer person
Well, I just didn’t understand the connection between fujoshi and cishet women enjoying bls. Being a fujoshi literally means women who consumes bl content, hence it doesn’t necessarily imply that you’re hetero (gender= sexual orientation). And yeah, sorry to break it to you but if you are a woman and like reading yaoi (no matter your sexual orientation), you are a fujoshi
-coming from someone who’s taking gender and sexuality classes rn
stop bc ur gonna make me laugh w this bc ik ur gender and sexuality class did not teach u anything ab fujos and ur just pulling that out ur ass to try to seem smarter. in most social settings, fujoshi is a term people use when describing a *hardcore* fan of bl- hence why theyre called "rotten girls" bc their brains r rotted with bl. this is like calling every fan of anime a weeaboo (ppl who want to become japanese) or an otaku (hard-core fan of japanese media). u would not call a casual fan those terms. anywayyyss, I've alr spent too much time on u and on this stupid discussion so I'm blocking u! have a nice day
LMAOO i came back to see a lot of notifs and just want to applaud you for taking the time to confront this person I honestly cant understand people who dont get why the term "fujoshi" is harmful towards actual gay people and even try to justify themselves over nothing
??? have you genuinely not seen how people stereotype that kind of thing? Its been referenced in several medias and even social medias either ure new or just living under a rock
and also since you YOURSELF is classing about QUEER INFORMATION you should know that we want to be seen as humans and respected equally and not to be seen as a sex material. Most if not all self proclaimed fujoshis dehumanizes gay people because they find their relationship as entertainment and pleasure for their own weird shit. What kind of sane person wants to be associated with that disgusting behavior? Fujoshis are KNOWN to be weirdos and HAVE BEEN known as that for years. And its also funny that most of the time is people OUT OF THE COMMUNITY sexualizing the minority which is literally so fuckin bad. No, we dont feel supported by that its in fact the complete opposite id rather be called a slur than a fujo asking if im a "seme or uke". Thats why several gay people who like to read or watch gay media tend to be extremely defensive when a cishet person also consumes it because theres a high chance theyre a fujoshi/himejoshi
it's always a hassle to try to explain fujo culture and how it not only affects gay men but also the queer community in general for a lot of it, u just had to be there to believe it LMAO like when a bunch of cishet women tried to reclaim fujoshi as a slur that shit was wild. but yeah, im glad I could help in defending ur honor
@yuyuyu Welp, thx for the informative response but I still think that whoever likes reading bls content, regardless of their gender identity and sexuality, is a fujoshi/fudanshi/bl fan or whatever. As long as they’re not acting out on their fantasies and fetishes for real gay people (at least without their consent), I think being a bl fan does no harm to anyone. Surely enough, each of us has had different experiences and opinions, so if @Fen had a bad experience with fujos I’m sorry it happened.
Ugh fujos are just weird and disgusting