Maybe it's just me but I don't like it when people give up of the things they enjoy (hobbi...

Eirinn July 12, 2024 10:49 am

Maybe it's just me but I don't like it when people give up of the things they enjoy (hobbies and such) for their lover. They really need to communicate more on that topic, my baby boy likes rock climbing, let him go rock climbing

Akira, my baby, ur too precious
Idk man but u deserve more than that but as long as ur happy ig (ಥ ʖಥ)♡

Responses
    NightOwl26 July 30, 2024 6:32 pm

    I agree. When my sister first started dating her now husband, I wasn't a fan of him because my sister suddenly grew a new hobby. Before she met her husband she used to HATE football and now all of a sudden she's like a number 1 football fan. She also never used to play computer games but now she has a PC setup and everythunf. I just didn't like how it felt like her husband was forcing her into hobbies she didn't like but hey... she's very happy now, loves her husband and really enjoys her hobbies so ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    alexisnic97 July 31, 2024 12:07 am

    Sorry, meant to like!!

    Elihinata July 31, 2024 4:32 am

    Fr I want him to have friends and hobbies so bad TTwTT it’s the healthy thing to do - character growth-wise

    Uhh February 11, 2025 9:21 pm
    I agree. When my sister first started dating her now husband, I wasn't a fan of him because my sister suddenly grew a new hobby. Before she met her husband she used to HATE football and now all of a sudden she'... NightOwl26

    Picking up new hobbies isn’t the same as giving them up.
    Picking up hobbies(both sides) is a sign of a healthy relationship while giving them up is a sign of a controlling one.
    It’s nice to learn to enjoy things your partner likes while they do the same so u can have mutual hobbies. Of course ppl continue to have their independent hobbies and friends too. It’s all about balance and consideration.

    NightOwl26 February 11, 2025 9:29 pm
    Picking up new hobbies isn’t the same as giving them up.Picking up hobbies(both sides) is a sign of a healthy relationship while giving them up is a sign of a controlling one.It’s nice to learn to enjoy thi... Uhh

    Thats true. I hadn't thought of that. At the time it just almost felt like she was forcing herself to love football just because he does when she didn't have to you know? That was quite a few years ago mind you, so my mindset has changed a little and she really does love it now haha