Salty love
The ml was kind of like grey hair at the beginning, but he got more confident and reliable as time went on. So there's that. Also, male pregnancy warning
There's also this second lead named vercion in 'How to be the chosen one'
Starts off as a harem, mc is a sex addict that got transmigrated into another world. He pretends to be god and becomes a cult leader
Vercion is pretty creepy, but he isn't nervous or shy (he was at the start, but he has leadership skills from the getgo sooo) (he only occasionally gets nervous around mc. Most of the time he's just a possesive, religiously obsessed freak)
Any of you guys know any other BL’s that have dudes like the white/grey haired brother….. (●'◡'●)ﾉ