Very weird victim blaming lmao. It’s very logical to think that when he believed he’s straight. In case you forgot that the Uke literally said he doesn’t understand how close friends are and their behaviors- meaning he doesn’t have any friends he’s close with. If you think about it with girls: TONS of girl friendships are naturally touchy and have skinship. It’s extremely hard to tell when a woman is actually flirting with another woman or just being friendly like they usually are. The only difference would be them fr confessing. There’s even girl friends that casually grope or smooch each other as jokes. The Uke is the youngest and most naive, the same goes for his brother.
Also in case you didn’t know: guy friendships in Korea actually share a lot more skinship than those in America (slapping butts, putting their hands all over their legs/thighs, etc). So being touchy in guy friendships is often normal there. It isn’t America where guys automatically think “gay!” When some other dude touches them
Lmao don’t be accusing people of shit what did I victim blame anyone??
I didn’t say he deserved it, and if he was gonna be setting someone to a certain standard he should as well, I said he seemed like the jealous type, as in any person touching their man is not okay so why would he not do the same?
Just because others do it doesn’t make it okay….
This is a gay relationship we’re talking about. He’s in a relationship with another guy therefore asking him gay does it not? His lover happens to be another man,
You say “in friendship there’s skinship” so in a straight relationship if you see your bf getting touchy with another girl you’re okay with it?
Yeah no,,..
I stand by what I said idgaf if you care or not for my opinion and again no, I am not victim blaming, I am just saying the uke should not set standards for the seme if he is not willing to set them for himself first.
As for the knowing when someone else is flirting-
He was CLEARLY flirting.. you can’t be THAT stupid not to notice…..
It’s literally in the damn story ffs. It said already that the Uke leant know how much skinship goes on between friends cause he doesn’t have any. Did you choose to close your eyes at that part??
And also use your head, him being jealous of an OLD CRUSH VS A FRIEND isn’t the same. He doesn’t know shit because the sunbae is two faced and acts normal in front of him. The only one who knew anything was the Seme, WHO CHOSE TO KEEP EVERYTHING THE SUNBAE DID A SECRET. You are victim blaming and acting like the Uke is in the wrong when you don’t give a shit about what has been clearly shown in the story. You’re also forgetting about same gender friendships. Here you are trying to put a male and female friendship when nothing in the story or my replies said anything about that. It’s only about SAME GENDER SKINSHIP. You gotta be straight to be thinking stupidly like “all gay people think everyone else who’s the same gender as them automatically assumes ppl are flirting.”
And you’re still ignoring the fact that I mentioned how friendships in Korea are and that it’s normal. Which is super important in differences of skinship. You’re trying to put your own ideals on others.
The sunbae at the end bothered all of us but honestly for me so did the uke!!!
THERES A CERTAIN POINT WHERE NOOOO ITS NOT HARD TO SEE SOMEONES FLIRTING WITH YOU!!??!??
like he was so worried about the seme and his first love, yet not only was the seme so straight forward about everything HE PUT AN END TO IT IMMEDIATELY!!
Set yourself to the same standards you’re setting your manz up to yk!???! The uke seems like such a jealous type and yet he lets the sunbae touch up on his face and stuff???? “He thought he was straight-“ yeah??- well he still found it uncomfortable at times and let it keep happening….
I love him but nahhh
Hope the sunbae gets isekaied to hell or something for touching up on my Manz while he was sleeping cuz wtf??