I’ve been reading manga since I was 12 and now I’m 27. I’ve never had partners because it’s too much of a hassle for me but regardless I will forever be reading anything I want even if I get married or have kids in the future. I know some people might say bl is just not okay in all fronts but honestly I enjoy the romance the most that is shown in it which is the main reason I read yaoi but I mean the spicy bits are just a bonus for me lol I wouldn’t care too much about it. Do what you want to do ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~
My husband is pretty much like yours lol. He came to understand why when I was super hooked on The Untamed and when he talked about it at the office, all his female coworkers started telling him about MDZS and showing him their wallpapers and merch. After that he was "well I guess it's fairly common then".
would yall still read bl even after getting married or having childern, is there readers like in this comment section? Cause i usually though people who read yaoi were either in their early 20s or so